For example, a birthday can only be “ruined” when the birthday person declares it to be ruined.
Because it’s a way of controlling others.
Control through guilt.
Nobody wants an event to be ruined, and the narcissist knows this and uses it as a weapon to get what they want.
They wanted it to go one way and it doesn’t. And to them, that means “it’s ruined”. They need to realize if it’s not “their” event, then yeah, they shouldn’t get to decide how it should go, even if it’s not to their liking.
This post but for people who get mad about the badposting comm
Beanis posting ruined badposting!
Meanwhile, Beanis posters:
It’s telling how angry people get about a happy little bean
ngl I don’t think it has much to do with narcissism, but more with control. I have autism and sometimes, I think some activities I try to do are ruined because I can no longuer control how I do them.
