I 100% agree, but the user “loathsome dongeater” got the pronoun right on the top post of this thread (“Holy shit I didn’t know she was trans herself.”), so clearly something confused him after that.
Yep, getting it right the first time is the only part that left me questioning the second time, but there’s more than enough clues that my faith in it being an accident has been steadily decreasing with time.
I won’t deny that a lack of clarification plays a role, but the way I phrased that perhaps overemphasized time. I do get that time zones exist, but it’s more that as I continued to think about it, it got harder for me to rationalize it as a mistake. That’s hopefully just that I’m catastrophizing things and that the various cues that I think should have been obvious are less apparent to other people.
I do get that time zones exist, but it’s more that as I continued to think about it, it got harder for me to rationalize it as a mistake. That’s hopefully just that I’m catastrophizing things and that the various cues that I think should have been obvious are less apparent to other people.
That’s understandable, I didn’t mean to make you feel like you were catastrophizing (which I don’t think you were).
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I 100% agree, but the user “loathsome dongeater” got the pronoun right on the top post of this thread (“Holy shit I didn’t know she was trans herself.”), so clearly something confused him after that.
Yep, getting it right the first time is the only part that left me questioning the second time, but there’s more than enough clues that my faith in it being an accident has been steadily decreasing with time.
He’s Indian IIRC, so if by “decreasing with time” you mean the lack of clarification, that’s probably just the timezone offset.
I won’t deny that a lack of clarification plays a role, but the way I phrased that perhaps overemphasized time. I do get that time zones exist, but it’s more that as I continued to think about it, it got harder for me to rationalize it as a mistake. That’s hopefully just that I’m catastrophizing things and that the various cues that I think should have been obvious are less apparent to other people.
https://hexbear.net/comment/6641115
Confirmed by the user that it was a typo.
That’s understandable, I didn’t mean to make you feel like you were catastrophizing (which I don’t think you were).