my girlfriend really doesn’t like my friend of several years. she is constantly snippy with him and she and her friends, i’ve heard, talk behind his back and say stuff about how annoying he is.
i was treated the exact same way when i was bullied, so it really got me reminded of that and i got a little upset but thought i overreacted.
i’m giving her the benefit of the doubt, just wanted to share that. i hope i’m dating a nice person and not secretly a bully.
edit: we broke up.
Not overreacting, it could be a red flag. I would say your feelings and thoughts definitely are valid, but give her the benefit of the doubt and also ask what’s going on, don’t make false accusations. Break up with her if she turns out to be bullying your friend and/or making you choose between her or him as an ultimatum.