This is super relatable for a lot of trans women. Trust me you are not alone in this.

It is something complex and can hit you like an emotional equivalent of a truck. There’s no shame in letting your emotions go. You felt what you felt and that’s valid. You’re doing a great job in processing it by writing it down.

Let us know if you want to talk about it more

Looks super cute and well done! ⭐✨

Woooowww— girl you look absolutely stunning!!! ✨

For those like me who didn’t know what exactly this was about, here’s a video of the incident:

https://youtube.com/watch?v=FrOf4_uXKmk&t=30s

Your curls or your curl iron?? — Forget it, I am taking both! 😄

I have mostly straight hair (it tends to curl at the very end). That awkward flip is my default hair right now 😭😂

Hey, I am sorry that this happened to you! That’s absolutely awful and disgusting behaviour. Fact is, this person doesn’t know anything about you and the way they act is a reflection of themselves, not you. You are valid.

Sending love and huuuugs 🩷

Twenty seconds of courage.

Pretend you’re full of confidence and lift yourself up. You’re now the most social person ever existed. You can handle any social situation even this one.

Now, do the thing you want to do and do it for at least twenty seconds. Take your time doing it.

Often it turns out it wasn’t that scary or didn’t go as bad as you thought it would and you can continue doing it. If it does, it’s okay, you tried and that counts too. Practice makes perfect. Also know that how others act is not a reflection of your self worth.

Just a gentle reminder to give yourself some love.