

they are invalidating queerness so much that they think a boundary based on queerness is totally valid for them to ignore
pretty much. people who don’t respect you are never going to respect your boundaries. add old people feeling like children (read: anyone younger than them) are just property + family entitlement and you have a shit sundae. my only recommendation is that being stoic and firm can sometimes see better results than your more explosive options (which will inevitably be taken as a tantrum/sign of immaturity and used to invalidate your feelings)
but realistically, you are probably unfortunately just going to have to endure them flagrantly disregarding your desires and plan to go full no contact entirely when you eventually find a new place.










oh god that is what that is, i’m such a dipshit i somehow didn’t make the connection. let’s upgrade that to several dumpsters in different zip codes