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  • It’s hard to decide what angle to take when arguing with bigots

    Yeah, it’s like:

    While there are outlying cases such as the formerly transphobic man in Wisconsin who listened and learned at the city council meeting, or my elderly neighbor who just hadn’t met queer people before my husband and I moved in next door, for the vast majority of bigots it’s not worth arguing at all. It’s more like we have to make society hostile to bigotry. People who are aggressively bigoted mostly aren’t open to being educated and will instead immediately become defensive and try to rationalize their own behavior and beliefs.

    I think it really depends on a lot of factors though. Someone who’s poor and living in my neighborhood is probably much more open to change than someone who’s comfortable in an affluent neighborhood with a two-stall garage. The more privileged, the less likely they’re going to even consider anything you have to say, because they already benefit from an inherently bigoted system.