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  • Weslee@lemmy.worldtoAsk Lemmy@lemmy.worldDad dating a minor; what to do?
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    2 months ago

    We’re all putting our own experiences out there, yours might not have been good, but mine was, so I wanted to share it.

    We don’t really have enough reliable information to say what is right and what is wrong here, if he is indeed grooming/manipulating her then of course that is bad, but I didn’t read anything to suggest that either of them are insincere.

    I knew exactly what kind of relationship I wanted when I was 17, it took me years to find it, all I’m saying is they could have both found theirs.


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    2 months ago

    I’m 34 and my partner is 54, We’ve been together for over 10 years, this is the best and strongest relationship both of us have had, not that I have had many, but my partner has and he says he’s the happiest he’s ever been with me.

    17 is young but it isn’t too young (imo), she might be mature for her age and they might work really well together.

    Not sure what point I’m trying to make, other than this kind of age gap does not always mean doom and gloom and that your dad could have found someone he could really enjoy being with, and you don’t want to destroy his happiness do you?









  • Yep, same, I did some competitions with a friend, they sent me my half of the winnings via PayPal, his account is hacked and the hacker for some reason tries to claim back all the winnings. Even though the hacker only got access once and my friend was in constant contact with PayPal, they still dragged it out for months and months, every week sending me warning about my account being in debt despite the fact my friend had already told them about the hack and proven his identity.

    It’s funny that a hacker with a random IP and no verification can fuck my life up for 6+ months with a single click, but my friend with all is documents and login history can’t convince PayPal they need to stop trying to take ~£60k off me.

    As soon as it was finally sorted I deleted my PayPal.