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Cake day: December 24th, 2025

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  • Your friend, unfortunately, is probably doing what’s she’s been told is the right thing. Convincing her otherwise isn’t just about reasoning with her, it’s also overturning a lot of things that make her feel like she belongs to her group of people.

    Most people that mistreat others think they’re doing the right thing or are justified in some way. But peoples’ reasons don’t really matter compared to their actions. What she’s doing is being pretty terrible to you, even if she’s been told (or genuinely believes) that it’s an act of love.

    If she doesn’t cut it out, you’re more than justified in finding other people to hang out with.





  • When I have an idea, it usually requires one or two pieces of information from the internet to implement.

    So while I am still actively having that idea, I try to quickly open a browser tab on my phone and search for that thing. There, it can’t just disappear now!

    (Side effects may include some browser tabs that are difficult to interpret. But most are pretty clear.)