Captain Janeway
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Captain Janeway@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
Trans@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Postal privacy is amazingEnglish
7·6 months agoWell not these days! Postal services were actually one of the first institutions to start using a ML based image classifier to determine zip codes automatically from people’s hand writing. I could easily see something like that existing for X-rays to auto-classify package contents if they wanted. That being said, I agree that they haven’t seemed motivated to implement that (thank goodness).
Captain Janeway@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•[CW: body dysmorphia] I need advice for my body type and belly fatEnglish
5·6 months agoThat’s super interesting! Seems like difficulty to juggle all of that tbh, but it makes sense.
Captain Janeway@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•[CW: body dysmorphia] I need advice for my body type and belly fatEnglish
2·6 months agoI can definitely increase my caloric intake a little bit. To be honest, I usually hit 1700+ since I’m not super strict. But I think I just need to be a lot more focused I suppose. It’s so hard to lose weight at this point.
Captain Janeway@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•[CW: body dysmorphia] I need advice for my body type and belly fatEnglish
4·6 months agoYeah I use MyFitnessPal right now to track my calories. I’m aiming for 1600 calories a day which is kinda hard. I skip breakfast and sometimes lunch but I’m vegan so my meals tend to be carb-forward. I try and eat things like just Tofu
Captain Janeway@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
QueerDefenseFront@lemmy.blahaj.zone•J.K. Rowling uses Harry Potter wealth to fund anti-transgender organization. English
2·7 months agoI don’t understand her hate. I don’t understand how someone could have access to the best this world has to offer and - in exchange - uses their time and power to injure people who have done nothing to them. If I had more than $10mil, you’d never hear from me again. I’d be in a different country every month. Staying at hotels and eating good food. I’d probably only use my phone to map to the nearest train station. I can’t even fathom wasting my money and time trying to physically injure people who are doing nothing but existing. The biggest insult to injury is that she’s a children’s book author. Hell, Harry Potter ironically was my escape as a kid. Dreaming of a world where I could be anything through the power of magic.
I know everything I’ve said has been addressed ad nauseam, but I just truly can’t wrap my head around this vitriolic, vile, behavior.
Captain Janeway@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPtoTransLater@lemmy.blahaj.zone•I'm taking the plunge at 32 years old!English
1·7 months agoThanks! Yes while I’m waiting for my shipment, I’m going to spend time figuring that all out. I’ll reach out to you if I hit a wall in my understanding.
Captain Janeway@lemmy.blahaj.zonetoTransLater@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Advice on starting the journey?English
1·7 months agoSorry that I’m late to the party. My egg cracked last month. 31 MTF and I’m also figuring things out. My wife is also cis and she’s also struggling to support me. I’ve been all over the emotional map these days. I have a daughter, but she’s only a baby so maybe that’s a bit easier to deal with. I’m not really through this journey so I’m not much help in terms of advice, but you’re definitely not alone.
Captain Janeway@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Trans@lemmy.blahaj.zone•HRT and Mental HealthEnglish
1·7 months agoI’m not on HRT and I’m still learning about it. I’m a newbie. But as someone who has struggled with depression, I advocate constantly for therapy. I feel like hormones have got to impact your brain chemistry in a myriad of ways. If you can afford therapy (if you’re not still going) and checking in with your doctor, I think that would be a good idea.
I’m sorry you’re going through such a hard time. Don’t forget to reach out to your support system. Sometimes a coffee date with an old friend or a call to a family (chosen or not) can be just as healing as an hour of therapy. I hope you know people care about you and you matter.
Captain Janeway@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPtoTransLater@lemmy.blahaj.zone•What positive things have happened to you this week?English
1·7 months agoPersonally, I went to therapy on Friday and my therapist said “we are in crisis mode”. I’m still new to my transition and even though that language is scary, it was very affirming to recognize that - yes - I’m scared and uncertain and learning a lot of things all at once. My life is changing. She also said “get used to feeling uncomfortable”, which is so hard for me. But her recognition of some hard facts about my current situation grounded me and gave me a courage to try some more daring things as part of my pre-HRT transition.
I am a woman.
Captain Janeway@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
AskTransgender@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Does anyone have gender affirming video games suggestions?English
1·7 months agoI definitely love Life is Strange and Stardew Valley! But Stardew Valley stresses me out lol I know it’s supposed to be relaxing but the day/night cycles give me anxiety to get stuff done quickly before seasons/years end.
Maybe I’ll do Unpacking or Skyrim but try it in 3rd person?
Captain Janeway@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
Trans Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Jadzia Dax has some good quotes for trans folksEnglish
1·7 months agoI know what you mean. The implication in Jadzia’s statement is that she’s typically adhering to straight relationships depending on her gender identity at the time. That being said, if you watch the show and are willing to be a little generous, you can make the claim that she’s pansexual. The actress explicitly has said she wanted to portray her character as pansexual. Also, the trill retain the memories and wisdom of previous partners. It’s hard to imagine that Jadzia wouldn’t feel attraction to her previous partners. In fact, if you watch DS9 S04E05 - Rejoined you’ll see Jadzia kiss her former wife and claim she still feels love for her. In addition, that kiss was one of the first televised lesbian kisses!
Captain Janeway@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
Transprogrammer@lemmy.blahaj.zone•I installed Arch Linux on my Macbook Pro, but then I installed KDE Plasma with the default packages. Did I do it wrong?English
1·8 months agoCool! Installing Arch was surprisingly easy. Just a few minor issues. Plus I have a MacBook Pro with the touch bar (not my choice) and I am struggling to get that working with the recommended packages but beyond that it’s not too bad.
Captain Janeway@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What shows/movies are absurdly stupid but fun to watch with friends?English
5·8 months agoKung Pao Enter the Fist. Warning: you must be immature and somewhat comfortable with jokes that might not have aged well. I haven’t watched it since I was a teen, but I remember thinking it was hilarious back then…
Maybe just stick with Space Balls and The Room.




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