having a really hard time coping with loneliness and facing the facts that people would rather be friends with people who are agreeable, passive, and “easy to digest” at best, and literal SAers and fascists at worse, over me. they may even complain about these “friendships” to me and then continue to invest more time in them.
hard to trust peoples words at all anymore. i don’t want to live like this. maybe it’s actually a blessing that i have no attachments to this place community wise
It’s something I know I’ve experienced my whole life. People are okay catering to bigots’ feelings because they don’t want to get confrontational. This just makes bigots feel like what they’re saying is true, so they continue their shitty behavior. When someone does confront their behavior, it blows up because the bigot isn’t used to hearing someone disagree. Now the person who called things out is the bad guy. Never the fuckwad who thinks “That’s just locker room talk.”
“It is not enough to be not racist in a racist society. One must be actively anti-racist.”
having a really hard time coping with loneliness and facing the facts that people would rather be friends with people who are agreeable, passive, and “easy to digest” at best, and literal SAers and fascists at worse, over me. they may even complain about these “friendships” to me and then continue to invest more time in them.
hard to trust peoples words at all anymore. i don’t want to live like this. maybe it’s actually a blessing that i have no attachments to this place community wise
It’s something I know I’ve experienced my whole life. People are okay catering to bigots’ feelings because they don’t want to get confrontational. This just makes bigots feel like what they’re saying is true, so they continue their shitty behavior. When someone does confront their behavior, it blows up because the bigot isn’t used to hearing someone disagree. Now the person who called things out is the bad guy. Never the fuckwad who thinks “That’s just locker room talk.”
“It is not enough to be not racist in a racist society. One must be actively anti-racist.”