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  • Beetle [hy/hym]@hexbear.net
    3·
    8 months ago

    I think it’s normal for trans people to have negative associations with the gender they were assigned at birth. It’s good to figure out the root cause of your negative feelings but you also deserve a break sometimes. Right now it seems like you need a break and accept that you’re probably trans. You have time for doubt later. If you want to be a girl then be one.

    I understand it’s difficult, but you can always go back to not being a girl if you realise you were wrong (which is unlikely).