Talk of sex, rape and violence

  • kittenzrulz123@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    3 months ago

    I absolutely despise how common trans and lesbian porn is thats specifically designed for straight men (in many cases they will even subvert trans ppl to their disgusting fantasies by depecting them as “futa”). Even worse, there are truly disgusting people that will go out of their way to sexualize and objectify Asexual people.

    I am not a porn category, I am not a fetish, I am not a “futa”, and I am especially not someone who “just hasnt had good sex”, I am a trans women and I am Asexual

    • Lady Butterfly @lazysoci.alOPM
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      3 months ago

      Trans being fetishised is frightening. You’re a person, not a sex toy, and you deserve respect. Sexual assaults against trans can start with fetishising the community and it’s vile. I agree with you about male gaze lesbian porn… ridiculously long nails, rubbing the clip like you’re trying to start a fire etc… it’s not how we do it!

      • Phoenixz@lemmy.ca
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        3 months ago

        Trans being fetishised is frightening

        Why? Everything is fetishised, so why not trans persons? Actors have tonnes of fake porn shots out there, loads of people objectify the crap out of them, and it is all a fantasy.

        There are LOADS of people out there with rape fantasies, look up CNC. That doesn’t mean they want to be raped, it means they have fantasies.

        Similarly, lots people have fantasies about trans persons. A lot of them, unfortunately, are the people who want to ban anyone from being LGBT (I guess these people are ashamed of themselves) and I think the world would be a lot better if people would kust open up a bit about their fantasies.

        Human beings are weird and most of them are very sexual. I can understand that you don’t like that, but you can’t dictate what people like and not like

        • Lady Butterfly @lazysoci.alOPM
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          3 months ago

          To me a kink or interest is different to a fetish. Trans are a vulnerable group who are at increased risk of violence, suicide and other mistreatment. I work in the VAWAG and IME people with a trans fetish are often just dangerous. It’s not a scenario based fantasy, its objectification and ive often found they start with fetishising and move onto violence.

        • TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works
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          3 months ago

          Actors have tonnes of fake porn shots out there, loads of people objectify the crap out of them, and it is all a fantasy.

          does that make it acceptable for you? making a cum shot of an unknowing actor doesn’t make it ethical for me AT ALL

          That doesn’t mean they want to be raped, it means they have fantasies.

          didn’t like >25% of that content on some porn platform get deleted because it wasn’t consented

          I think there’s a difference between having a liking for something, and acting like every member of that group are oversexualized and are only for sex.

          treat people like people, not sex toys.