Long story short I had a shower thought about how I enjoy seeing bearish men and my fantasy scenarios involve me either being one or seeing one in action. While I have no urge to actually sleep with or be romantic with men, I wonder what that says about me? I’ll easily admit I find these men attractive and yet I don’t want to actually pursue them. But I still find them dead sexy and, ah, it’s confusing.

Anyone out there that can chime in about how I feel?