I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 years. I want to surprise her by proposing to her and being all fancy for our hangout soon, but I don’t want to move too fast. 3 years should be fine, right??
Anyway, I’ll tell you how it goes!!
Have you two talked about marriage before? Are your long-term goals compatible? I’m of the philosophy that totally spontaneous proposals generally aren’t a great idea unless certain important things are already known.
If you have talked about those things, then yeah go for it.
A lot. We both want to move to possibly Japan together and get married. My family loves her and her family loves me.
I would not propose unless we talked about it, but she says often that she hopes we get married and that she wants to marry me.
she says often that she hopes we get married and that she wants to marry me.
That seems like a green light to me.
But what if she’s just nice?
What if she’s Canadian?
