• Veggie_Deluxe [any, comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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    3 months ago

    this shit sucks. It has the same wavelength as jordan peterson. Maybe it is because i have lived alone and taken care of all my shit myself for a long fucking time at this point that this kind of thing deeply annoys me.

    • Awoo [she/her]@hexbear.net
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      3 months ago

      What exactly annoys you about it? You are not the target if you are not a perpetrator of unfair sharing of labour by gender standards. Why get annoyed on behalf of those that are perpetrators of this problem?

      Edit: Shit just noticed the comm. Should I even be participating?

        • Awoo [she/her]@hexbear.net
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          3 months ago

          While I was playing Battlefield 6 yesterday after being downed instead of reviving me a grown ass man on my team dragged my character’s body into the kitchen and left it there, saying that is where I belong.

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            3 months ago

            And that is absolutely horrible. My criticism isn’t that sexism and patriarchal repression don’t exist. To infer that from my point seems disingenuous. My point is that this is not a revolutionary issue. If the means of production were in the hands of a ruling party of the people tomorrow that would not effect the dynamic of deeply engrained sexism in those who are chauvinists. It is a separate issue. This flyer implies that when men pick up the slack on domestic labor suddenly they will gain a revolutionary consciousness and join the nebulous group ‘women’ in building a new world. If we wanted to have a thread discussing how culture can be changed and the next generation of boy will not harbor those same prejudices that seems good and useful, but this is just a flyer posted to a group that I would hope would be well past this point in improving themselves. Posting this here just seems like an empty gesture aimed at a stereotype.

            • Awoo [she/her]@hexbear.net
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              3 months ago

              Hmm. I think the poster is not aimed at the average man but is aimed at people who already have a revolutionary consciousness but have unaddressed issues with their own behaviour. The left, particularly in the UK at the very least, is deeply sexist.

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              3 months ago

              My point is that this is not a revolutionary issue. If the means of production were in the hands of a ruling party of the people tomorrow that would not effect the dynamic of deeply engrained sexism in those who are chauvinists.

              No, it totally is a revolutionary issue and yes, it would. First, the separation of the proletariat along geneder lines in productive and reproductive labor is a large cause of splits in our ranks and a huge obstacle to class consciousness. It’s also at the core of the fight for queer and trans Liberation.

              And second the need for this separation in exploited (paid) productive labor and expropriated (unpaid) reproductive labor is not a historic accident, but a systemic necessity for capitalism to even exist. It won’t go away until the means of production are in the hands of a revolutionary peoples party, that would, in order do reach this position, need to be aware of those material facts.

              Framing this purly in terms of sexism (ideology) is an idealist take. The ideology would be effected by the underlying material conditions changing, as it has historically, eg in the USSR.

        • DirtyPair [they/them]@hexbear.net
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          3 months ago

          implicit assumption of men being completely incapable of basic tasks

          is that truly your good faith interpretation of the message here? no thoughts on the history of sexism, the objectification of women? obviously it’s criticizing how stupid and useless men are. Oh, poor men!

    • MiraculousMM [he/him, undecided]@hexbear.netOPM
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      3 months ago

      There are many well-meaning people with awareness of patriarchy who have yet to unpack and unlearn patriarchal gender roles, that’s the target audience of this poster’s messaging, the average western dude from 1999, as Edie pointed out. It’s less about the work itself and more about how women are overwhelmingly expected to conform to specific arbitrary work roles.

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        3 months ago

        It’s pretty amazing how common this still is today. I hear from my female friends about how their partner doesn’t help with cooking, cleaning, laundry, grocery shopping, etc.

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      3 months ago

      how do you get angry at a poster that’s about being nice to women… honestly your comment makes it seem like you didn’t even look at it