Opened it to reveal her favorite drink, frosty cold!

It was a Yeti!..

She was trying to decide should she yell “to infinity and beyond!” or “Towanda!!”…

😊💕🫂

We talked over the milkshakes and turns out once his spiralling calmed down, he felt better and was more kind. Shame he took me down with him lol, but we’re doing much better yesterday and today. Whew.

Thank you. ❤️ I am glad it’s finally behind me. Husband isn’t much of a cheerleader and was more like “thanks for doing what you’d said you’d do 2 months ago”. 😔

Trying better at building each other up was something I’d hoped raise in couple’s therapy yesterday afternoon but he started spiraling about an unrelated thing and the session went off the rails. We’re both really struggling right now with our own uncooperative brain chemistries. We’re about to go get milkshakes right now though and are trying to make today better.

Kind of a congrats like I’m 5 thing to share, but I filed our taxes today!

He asked me to do them 2 months ago when Elon started disrupting things at IRS & Treasury. I haven’t felt up to it though. I’m not working and don’t know what I want to do for work, but I don’t really want to do accounting anymore. And it was kind of painful to go into my tax software and get our own things together. I’m reminded of the clients I had, even though I don’t want to be doing their work, it still sucks to feel like a failure.

But I didn’t mean to turn into Eeyore. I am damn proud of myself for being brave enough to put it on my to do list and then to actually do it.

Cake is my jam too

Do you make your fish & chips at home or have a chippy you go to?

I love chippies in the UK (I see you’re Canadian tho), but here in Virginia, our best bet is to go to an Irish bar. And there aren’t too many good Irish bars near me. 😔

Not

Jeggings for me. Any color. I live in leggings. I like the gentle compression. It’s like wrapping my legs in a hug.