cis dude i know has the daintiest, high-pitch low volume sneezes. He’s a good dad and male role model
we dont choose our traits, but TV/social media sure as fuck has curated a very specific box which we all should ‘supposedly’ fit in.
Convinient for a certain few who profit from marketing to a particular over-catered-to demographic, no?
My mother sneezes when she’s full. So when there’s an occasion where people tend to overeat, everyone in the house knows when she reached capacity. It’s like barking.
For a while we had a shelter cat who came to us at a later point in his live. And whatever happened to him in the past: when someone sneezed he meowed (not like cute little meow but the ones with the scrungy face). These two gave quite a show every evening, like a very weirs, loud and kinda angry duet
I, as a cis woman, have the same problem. xD
I basically force the sneeze through my front teeth and it kinda works most of the time. Taught myself how when I noticed a girl I sat next to in school sneezed almost silently and I thought it was super cute. Now, coughing and throat-clearing on the other hand… Sounds like I’ve lived my whole life in a coal mine…
My lovely, beautiful wife usual scares the shit out of me when she sneezes. I have never heard any man go as loud, ever. Some people just have amazing lung capacity and vocal chords!
wait is this a real problm?
i thought this is a thing peeps jus do cuz they thinksies its funi… i always sneezed quietly lik:
*breathes in* - - - tsch - |. i dun lik it when peeps yell lik - real loud n aggressiv when sneezn. suuu i jus dun do it…i didn kno peeps actulli hav diffcultis with sneezin without yellin… im supr vrri srri for u peeps ;(
Im a very loud sneezer and if i suppress the sneeze it actually hurts.
well samsies bt its oki! <3
i get back pain from it ~ ~ ~ <3
Yeah it’s not for fun, or to intentionally annoy others in public spaces. Those loud sneezes are just the default for how it comes out for some people. Personally I always try to sneeze directly into my elbow, both for sanitary reasons, and also to be less loud in public.
i alsuu sneeze in elbow, jus cuz i dun wana accdentlli spit at peeps >~< thad be uncomf! ;(
n alsuu to be evn quietr. usulli nobody evn notices i sneezd… which alsuu means peeps dun say “bless u” which i kinda fin a bit sad - - -
My darling old aunt used to sneeze so loud that it would jump scare me on the floor above, while gaming, with headphones. It sounded like lightning crashing down. I miss my Aunt…
After I sneeze in my living room, I can still hear the radiator resonate like a tuning fork.
the radiator: 🗿🚬
my larynx goes up high when I sneeze and usually I sound pretty cute, this was actually a problem for me pre-transition
coughing on the other hand, is harder - I always want to open my chest and lungs and cough deeply, which uh, sounds not feminine
I learned how to sneeze like a girl
i just make a girly sound on backend and hope no one notices
But I thought the frontend is what the user sees. Wouldn’t this just make it so everyone other than yourself knows?
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