🎀 Seryph (She/Her)

🎀 Fashion Weirdo Elegant Sweet 🎀

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Cake day: August 16th, 2023

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  • Gods, you just unlocked a memory of me at like 10 years old watching a few spirit science videos because Youtube recommended them to me and I was big into science youtube ala Kurzsgesagt at the time. I don’t think I ever believed any of it even then at least, but kinda crazy to think of how it could have impacted me if I went further down that hole. I’ve always been the type to have a like morbid fascination with this stuff though, like you sorta describe.

    In hindsight I also think the gender essentialism of basically all these conspiracy theories is kinda ridiculous too. Like even ignoring transness, how anyone can take “men and women used to literally be two different alien species” seriously is beyond me.







  • Definitely do the vintage and org, those two are great environments to start acclimating yourself in. I’d probably do a check-in after those two to ask if she’d like to try going to any actual stores in person or if she’s content and then follow her lead and bring her to a mall or smth

    Regarding sizing, general rule of thumb is a women’s size is a men’s size +1, so she’s probably extra large or in the plus sizes depending on her exact measurements, so anything in those sections ought to be okay I think. Admittedly I am tiny (women’s small) so I have little experience with the higher end of women’s sizes so ymmv.

    General unedited recommendations for clothing: if she gets any skirts make sure she tries them on high waisted (at the thinnest part of her waist, a bit above the bellybutton usually) since that helps with making a femme figure and also just looks good imo, neutral colours are a good starting place but she can do whatever she likes, avoiding 90° angles in sleeves is helpful to make shoulders appear less broad, and I’d recommend pushing her to pici up some accessories along with the clothing, I neglected them for a while but they also really help with feeling euphoric.

    Can’t help with makeup I only just started doing mine literally last week and I started with goth makeup lol.