I finally got around to seeing “I Saw The TV Glow”, and it definitely lived up to the hype.

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  • gaystyleJoker [she/her]@hexbear.netMEnglish
    4·
    5 days ago

    hi, does anyone wanna make the mega in the upcoming weeks? if so, reply to this post and i’ll add you to the list!

    the list as it stands:

    GayTuckerCarlson* (6/23 - 6/29)
Eco* (6/30 - 7/6)
Disaster_of_Passion (7/7 - 7/13)
sodium_nitride (7/14 - 7/20)
peanutbuttercupola* (7/21 - 7/27)
BountifulEggnog* (7/28 - 8/3)    
oscardejarjayes* (8/4 - 8/10)
Seryph (8/11 - 8/17)

    ​ * after name denotes someone who has posted before and will be skipped by first-time posters

  • Wmill [they/them, fae/faer]@hexbear.netEnglish
    13·
    14 hours ago

    This probably isn’t new to anyone who’s dated men (and hope I’m not generalizing this to just one gender etc) but damn I’m starting to see the litmus test for a lot of these guys is seeing how they react when under pressure or frustration. Seeing some of these guys who I’ll admit are pretty cute in their way melt down when shit goes bad or get extremely bitter is like catgirl-huh The course’s theme I’ve picked out is failure all over the place but you get up and try again. Frustration is alright and shit’s not gonna be perfect but it’s fine. Today I learned something new that I didn’t know beforehand and I’ll keep learning something new going forward and testing myself.

  • Moss [they/them]@hexbear.netEnglish
    22·
    18 hours ago

    It seems that all the working on my appearance has paid off because someone called me hot today! That’s the first time I’ve ever had that happen.

    Problem is I have literally no idea how to flirt so I kinda just smiled and walked away. What the fuck are you supposed to do when that happens

  • SterlingPooper [none/use name]@hexbear.netEnglish
    9·
    19 hours ago
    envy, dysphoria

    One neighbor woman who lives in the same building as me really stresses me out. The hair, the outfits, the walk… I’m pretty sure we were in school together, but I didn’t see her really in the spring, so I thought she graduated and moved.

    Anyway my assumption is “oh she’s already heard stuff about me” because of how small the school is. Like, I know she’s friends with the girlfriend of a classmate of mine. I’m like “she’s heard about me, she has an opinion about me”.

    But she’s really pretty and she always has friends hanging out and wears great outfits. I feel myself unable to speak. And like, what would I say, besides “may I have girl lessons please thank you”

  • sodium_nitride [she/her, any]@hexbear.netEnglish
    6·
    19 hours ago

    My body frame sucks for wearing cute clothes, and yet I wear them anyway (at home).

    I try to buy jewelry, but all the women’s rings are the wrong sizes. There was a pretty cute butterfly ring that I wanted. But it didn’t fit, and searching for sizes was getting awkward as I stood there with a friend (male) who doesn’t know about me being trans in a store completely where only women were buying stuff from catgirl-cry.

    CW just in case: weight stuff

    I know I should be more accepting of my body, but I really do want to loose weight 🙃. Ain’t nothing I can do about it cept getting off my bum and exercising. Ain’t gonna ruin my health by going on some crazy diet. I don’t stick to that shit anyways. Pointless to try.

  • KrupskayaPraxis@lemmygrad.ml
    12·
    24 hours ago
    dysphoria, regret

    When I think about the fact that I didn’t do DIY HRT for three and a half years after I realized I was trans I feel so much regret and anger for my younger self. I thought the waiting lists wouldn’t be so long and I was actively dissuaded from trying DIY by my psychologist, so it isn’t completely my fault, but still. I feel like the trans achievements I made in that time don’t matter because I wasn’t on HRT, even if I know that’s not true.